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When you’re choosing the location, keep in mind where you want the date to end. Always offer to meet her there - most safety minded women prefer arranging their own transportation to somewhere public until you’re not a stranger anymore. For a first date, a weeknight or weekend afternoon keeps the vibe more lowkey. When it comes to when you should meet, give her a choice. Places with benches and booths are ideal because you can cozy up against one another, versus a table situation where you have to sit across from each other. You don’t want to yell to be heard, or forced to communicate with hand signals - both will make it much tougher to connect. Ideally, your date locations should be conducive to conversation.

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Tip #3: Take Control Of The Logisticsĭon’t be that guy who asks a girl out, then says “So where do you want to meet?” Talk about tanking your first impression! You can always extend the date by suggesting another activity if things are going great. On the other hand, agreeing to meet you for a quick cup of coffee or a cocktail is virtually no pressure at all, and something she’s much more likely to agree to. You’re asking her to commit to spending a few hours with you, and that puts a lot of pressure on her - especially if the two of you end up not hitting it off.Īlmost every woman has had a bad first date experience, and trying to make a graceful early exit is awkward and uncomfortable - not something she’s probably looking forward to repeating. Likewise, proposing a long activity like dinner or a movie (or worse, dinner and a movie) isn’t a good idea. You don’t want to look like you’re desperate to impress her, so don’t suggest a fancy, expensive dinner.

(For expert advice on how to ask her out, click here.) Tip #2: Keep It Casualįor the first date, stick with activities that are “low investment” in terms of both time and money. If she’s in her mid 30s and up, or you know she’s seeking a committed relationship, go ahead and use the word “date.” It’s a more serious word, and if she’s actively looking for boyfriend or husband material, she’ll be glad to know you’re on the same page. If she’s in her 20s or early 30s, or you know from your online dating conversation that she’s not looking for a serious relationship, ask her to “meet up” or “get together.” Those terms are low key and casual, so she’s more likely to agree. Before The Date Tip #1: Be Strategic About Your Word Choice You have one chance to make her swipe 👉! Download these 9 proven tricks to boost your match rate instantly.

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